Saturday, September 13, 2014

breastfeeding; my secret recipe

My Secret Recipe for Breastfeeding
Breastfeeding is a very rewarding experience that most moms enjoy. In addition to its physical advantages for both baby and mummy, it creates a special bond and gives the child a unique sense of security and warmth.
Knowing and believing in the benefits of breastfeeding, I decided to fully commit to it back with my first child.  It was a painful struggle that lasted for four months. I had bleeding blisters, and my baby would not even consider a bottle. Not that I wanted to stop breastfeeding, but the pain was unbearable. I tried every single remedy I crossed, and none of them worked. With my teeth biting my lips, I continued to breastfeed until by coincidence I came across Lansinoh – lanolin breast cream, and breastfeeding became paradise. 
I consider that I have successfully breastfed all five kids, including the twins, and I am delighted that I did. Not that it was smooth and easy with all of them, but ‘When there is a will, there is a way.’ I strongly encourage all moms to try their best to breast feed since it is the best that you could offer to your baby.
I do understand, however, that not all women are able to breastfeed, and one of the main problems is the fact of not having sufficient milk supply.  Once a mom decides she wants to breastfeed, she has to focus on following a healthy diet which helps in increasing the amounts of milk. Following a diet to lose the baby weight must be put on hold, and the focus should be more on the foods that are good for the mom’s milk. ‘Foods with lactation-promoting properties are called lactogenic foods.’     

Here are the best supply-boosting foods for breastfeeding moms;
Papaya, asparagus, oats, halva sweet known as ‘halawa’, carrots, almond nuts, spinach, chick peas, brown rice, apricots, and salmon.


                                          
Frequent nursing or pumping in addition to drinking water and other fluids boost the milk supply. One of my favourite and finest herbal fusions is a drink which I have inherited from my great-grandmothers. And the recipe is simple and easy; two to three cinnamon sticks, a knob of dry or fresh ginger, and some anis seeds.
Put all the ingredients in a big kettle. Fill it with a half a litre of water. Bring it to the boil and let it simmer for a half an hour.
During the first two months you could add around one teaspoon of fenugreek. The latter helps in cleaning the womb and in boosting the milk supply. However, you should not exceed the intake of fenugreek as it might decrease the sugar level in the blood.
Finally, a breastfeeding mom should try to rest and nap whenever she could in order to be able to stand up to the required demands.        


                    


 
Breastfeeding needs commitment and dedication, but it is also rewarding in terms of physical and emotional states for both mommy and baby.  It is indeed worth trying! 

N.B: Please note that these recipes suited me well. If you have any allergy to any of the above mentioned ingredients, avoid trying them.

Wednesday, September 3, 2014

About Me

My name is Rania and I would like to welcome you to my journey as the helicopter mommy…

I am a mother, an educator, an aspiring writer and last but not least a wife.
My husband and I have been happily married for 11 years and have been blessed with five children, four boys and a girl whose ages range from 5 months to 9 years. Raising three boys for the past 9 years was nearly manageable while pursuing my career in education as a full time elementary teacher. However, things were about to change drastically when we found out that we were expecting a boy AND a girl in 2014. As thrilled as we were, we knew we are going on the ride of our lives.

After taking a decision to put my teaching career on hold for the time being, I decided to share my story and start this blog.  Therefore, I will be writing about my experiences as a dedicated mother and wife, passionate educator and will be also revealing my parenting style and techniques based on the evidence based research I have done over the years. 

Finally, I hope you will enjoy this voyage with me… 
I started this blog with a poem ‘To the Love of Your Children’ which I have written because it describes how important it is to share every second of your life with your beloved kids. I know it is quite difficult to keep insanity at bay when it comes to raise your children, but one should always try. This poem and these words help me stay calm when I feel like blood is boiling in my veins. Have an image of something serene at hand, and there you feel composed and peaceful.
Hope you enjoy, and I would love to hear your feedback.

Tuesday, September 2, 2014

To The Love of Your Children

I am you and you are me
Open your eyes so you can see,
Bounce along with love and care,
Embrace the world out there.
Keep going, keep glowing,
Never give up on enjoying
The children’s laughter, growth, even noise
Do not get mad; as there is always a choice,
Where you allow patience to reside
Forever in your soul - and not to subside.
Laugh, hug, dance, and play
Cause that is what you have for today,
Precious memories of childhood are built
Do it with passion, without having any blame or guilt.
With every challenging struggle you face,
Try your best not to leave a negative trace.
Let that anger and tension out
You do not need to scream or even shout.
Breathe with all your might
You do not need to fight.
They know you are there should they fall,
Your support, love, and softness are their call.
For the love of your children, my dear
Remember the present moment, now and here.
Take it easy and do it right,
Do it with all your might!
Happiness is what I guarantee,
You will always be floating, you will see!


By: Rania Hussant